Here’s something I hear all too often: “Oh, we can’t ask her to donate (buy) to this new project (product), she already gives (buys) so much.”
Which way does the value flow again?
Remember, remember, remember, people don’t give (buy) and get nothing in return. They didn’t give because they were temporarily hoodwinked, cajoled, tricked, or otherwise pushed unaware over some invisible line. They gave to accomplish something, to express something, to be more of the person they want to be. And that’s true whether they give $50 or $50 million.
OK, so that’s easy to say and it sounds so sensible.
But if it’s sensible then the right thing to say when you’re creating something new, something exciting, something powerful, is, “Wow we’d better make sure we take this idea to the people who are our biggest supporters. They’d be so bummed if they missed out on this opportunity.”
There’s a world of difference between “Please would you give to this?” and “This idea is so exciting, you don’t want to miss out on it.” A bigger difference still when “you don’t want to miss out” is so real, is something you feel in your bones, because then it’s true and you and the person you’re talking to feel and know that truth.
And yes, this is just as true when you’re selling a project, selling a gig, selling a software solution as it is in philanthropy.
The conversation you want to have, the conversation you can have right now, starts with, “Imagine this amazing, exciting thing. Wouldn’t it be cool if we could make this happen together?”
Not a zero sum game. Abundance.